Ladies (preferably college age): am I dateable?

You are completely dateable, don't undersell yourself. You seem intelligent, realistic, and better yet, unique. You just need to find yourself a unique girl. There are a lot of average girls that aren't looking for an in depth relationship and you won't find success with those girls. If you can't find girls that you have a connection with at school, try your online idea. I recommend match.com. My best friend has been dating her boyfriend for over a year now and they plan on getting engaged soon and they met on match.com only a couple of weeks into looking for each other. Best of luck!