I need help with make up?

The short answer is, if you're afraid/don't like it, then don't do it! It's just not your thing! But since that's not the answer that you're looking for, use a tinted lipbalm. It's so much easier than wearing a lipgloss. Both Sally Hansen and Burts Bee's has them. Don't bother with blush, it's so easy to get carried away with it when you don't know what you're doing. Tinted lipbalm is enough.